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Monday, Post-Birthday

  • May. 7th, 2007 at 7:52 AM
Yvonne
It's been a pretty good bunch of days. Saturday I had a milestone birthday (thanks to [info]cardigirl  for a great birthday card!). Friday the 4th was our company picnic, which was originally scheduled for the 3rd. It was rescheduled by someone else so that kids could go; we had about 12 kids (most were still in school anyway) on Friday, and an ungodly TFW that made much of the experience pretty miserable. A couple of coworkers were sweet enough to bring me birthday gifts, including a skull martini glass and a mondo-cool Nightmare Before Christmas lunchbox (with thermos), and they even came up with a Finding Nemo birthday cake (although the fish toys turned up missing when the cake was packed up, oh well). A friend from Chicago sent me Fannie May candy. :)

I have to admit that the milestone birthday freaks me out more than a little. Lest I sound whiny, I won't go into that. The Husband has been, as always, hugely supportive and has plied me with lots of nice stuff, including white buffalo earrings and a stunning opal heart necklace. The bigger thing is he's taken steps to make the pool warmer, so that I can actually swim in it this year. Petite Desert Flower that I am, the water was only warm enough last summer for me to fully immerse twice.

As part of my freakyness over the Big Bad Birthday, The Husband and I discussed my writing as a priority, and we've reestablished that Grande Dame of Writing Hierarchdom: The Deadline. I now have one for completion of the first book, in draft (because I hope it will be a series and there will be more), of the Super Secret Project: October 1, 2007. He believes the problem is that I have no impetus to complete it, whereas in the past I have always had some kind of deadline, at least since I began selling. It's quote possible he's right. (Speak into the microphone, slowly please.)

As of right now:



And now, off to the day job. ::pfleeeeeet::

Comments

[info]ladyeuthanasia wrote:
May. 7th, 2007 03:53 pm (UTC)

Awww, Von! Super big hugs! This business of turning uncomfortable numbers is pretty wicked stuff. So I hope your birthday gets only brighter from here!
[info]yvonnenavarro wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 02:49 am (UTC)
Merci. :)
[info]tina_jens wrote:
May. 7th, 2007 04:57 pm (UTC)
Big birthdays are disconcerting, and more than a little humbling. But they're great opportunities, too, to do exactly what you've done: step back, analyze your life, and make course corrections, as needed. You may have a lot of emotional discomfort now, but that's not so bad a price to wind up happier for the next decade. {Hugs} Good luck with the novel deadlne. I know you can do it!
[info]yvonnenavarro wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 02:49 am (UTC)
Thanks, Tina, for all your support for many, many moons. I still remember who set up my very first public reading at Stars (you!), where I nervously read a chapter from an unfinished novel... AfterAge.
[info]flemmarde wrote:
May. 7th, 2007 09:09 pm (UTC)
happy belated milestone birthday!

and as someone with a deadline looming way too soon, i totally get the slowness that comes with a lack of them. lately i've been writing like nobody's business because now i really don't know if i'll make it. but there was a day that deadine seemed way too far away to be a problem :)
[info]yvonnenavarro wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 02:47 am (UTC)
I just don't know if I can handle deadline pressure like I used to-- just a hard 6 hours of work at the day job exhausted me today!
[info]weezlgrrrl wrote:
May. 7th, 2007 10:33 pm (UTC)
Happy late birthday darlin!!!
[info]yvonnenavarro wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 02:46 am (UTC)
Thank you. :)
[info]las wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 12:14 am (UTC)
Happy belated b-day!

(Our birthdays are only one day apart!)
[info]yvonnenavarro wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 02:44 am (UTC)
Well, hey -- Happy Birthday to You!

Ha -- I have an Evil Almost Twin!

(or perhaps *I* am the Evil Almost Twin!)

muhahahahahahaha!
[info]teamwak wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 10:06 am (UTC)
Happy birthday!

I am sure that you will be banging through pages like no tomorrow. :)

And I am totally with you on heating the pool. Nobody likes swimming in cold water, do they?
[info]johndark1985 wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 01:55 pm (UTC)
Hey Yvonne

Happy belated Birthday or is it belated happy Birthday or ...oh well I've been around so long that the brain cells don't start firing till around noon.
Age is just a number. Anytime I think that I'd like to be younger I just remember all the stupid things I did 20 years ago and that cures that.
Really, I don't want to do those things again so I'm happy that now I know better.

I think that Weston is right with the idea of setting a deadline. You've already proved deadlines work with the kind of output you'd do on a novelization. You had a deadline, so you got it done.
Back in January I was struggling with getting started on a novel that I had written the intro to back in 2000. Then the publisher accepted the novels and a light went on over my head that told me "When the books come out your time is going to be tight because you're going to be trying to promote these things." I forced myself to be come obsessive about it and got it done in early April. It's either great or a mess. Only time will tell.
Yeah: Deadlines, either self-made or made by an outside source will help you produce a lot of work in a short period of time.
It works.

Happy birthday again.

Take Care
Have Fun
Badbob
[info]diorling wrote:
May. 8th, 2007 04:05 pm (UTC)
happy belated bday, Vonny!
(Anonymous) wrote:
May. 10th, 2007 01:39 am (UTC)
Happy slightly belated. Don't sweat the birthday thing, big or not. They come, they go. You get presents and at some point just stop counting... but never stop accepting presents!!

CVP

[info]yvonnenavarro wrote:
May. 11th, 2007 12:54 am (UTC)
Presents are excellent, indeed! As a matter of fact, a friend of mine who moved from here to the Lisle/Naperville area (and works downtown) send me a customized box of Fannie Mae!
[info]airbornevet wrote:
May. 15th, 2007 02:19 pm (UTC)
Happy Belated Birthday!
[info]yvonnenavarro wrote:
May. 16th, 2007 03:33 am (UTC)
Thanks!
[info]marcy_italiano wrote:
May. 18th, 2007 08:36 pm (UTC)
Happy belated Birthday!

Don't let numbers get you down, save it for when you start FEELING it. ;)

Big hugs!
( Grumble! )